Sex magic is a spiritual practice that utilizes sexual energy to manifest intentions and desires. The following is a straightforward solo sex magic ritual that anyone interested can adapt to suit their personal beliefs and comfort levels:
Basic Solo Sex Magic Ritual
Purpose
This ritual focuses on channeling sexual energy to manifest a specific desire or intention, such as love, abundance, or personal empowerment.
Preparation
- Set Your Intention:
- Start by clearly defining what you wish to manifest. Write it down if that helps solidify your intent, keeping it concise and focused (e.g., “I manifest love and connection” or “I attract abundance into my life”).
- Gather Your Materials:
- Candle: Choose a candle color that resonates with your intention (e.g., red for passion, green for abundance).
- Incense or Essential Oils: Scents like jasmine, sandalwood, or rose can enhance the atmosphere.
- Comfortable Space: Prepare a clean and comfortable environment where you feel relaxed and safe, free from interruptions.
- Props (optional): You may use items that represent your intention, such as crystals or personal symbols.
- Create an Altar or Space:
- Arrange your items in a dedicated space that feels sacred to you, placing the candle in the center.
The Ritual
- Cleansing the Space:
- Begin by cleansing your space to enhance the energy. You might use incense, sound (like a bell or singing bowl), or simply visualize the space being filled with vibrant, protective energy.
- Lighting the Candle:
- Light the candle as a symbolic act of calling in your intention. As you do so, say a declaration that affirms your desire, (e.g., “I light this candle to manifest [your intention] in my life.”).
- Meditation and Grounding:
- Spend a few minutes in meditation to ground yourself and connect with your body. Focus on your breath and allow any tension to melt away. Visualize a warm light surrounding you and filling you with energy.
- Sensual Preparation:
- Engage in sensual activities that make you feel good. This may involve bathing, putting on soft music, or dressing in comfortable clothing. The goal is to heighten your senses and create an atmosphere conducive to magic.
- Connecting with Your Sexual Energy:
- Focus on your breath and allow yourself to engage in self-pleasure. As you do, remain mindful of your intention; visualize it growing stronger with each moment. Feel the energy building within you.
- Climax and Manifestation:
- At the peak of your pleasure, envision your intention fully manifesting in your life. Imagine it vividly—what it looks like, how it feels, and the joy it brings. Hold this visualization as you reach climax, directing the energy of pleasure toward your desire.
- After the Ritual:
- Once you have finished, allow yourself to relax. You may want to meditate briefly on how it feels to have your intention fulfilled. Thank any energies or guides you feel connected to during your practice.
- Extinguishing the Candle:
- Safely extinguish the candle, symbolizing the sealing of your intention. You can say something like, “This intention is set into motion; may it come to fruition in its right time.”
- Integration:
- Consider journaling about the experience and any feelings or insights that came up. This helps integrate the ritual into your life and provides clarity moving forward.
Basic Sex Magic Ritual for the Solo Practitioner
1. Define the goal, purpose, or clarify the desire. You need to know what it is you want to manifest prior to performing sex magic.
2. Cleanse the area. I like to perform a simple cleansing of the area in which sex magic will be performed. Smudging and burning incense are good, simple ways of achieving such.
3. Cleanse yourself. Take a spiritual bath or perform a simple cleansing on yourself to wipe away any negative energies that you may have picked up over the course of your daily life.
4. Set the mood/atmosphere.
- Dim the lights or light candles. If you are burning candles then you can go ahead and fix candles for your magical purpose, such as using proper color, marked/carved, and dressed with proper corresponding condition oil. Otherwise, you can just burn any candle of any color.
- Burn incense if you prefer. Your incense can also be chosen by purpose as well or just use whatever incense your prefer.
- If you would like to have soft music playing in the background then such is fine. Any music that inspires eroticism would be good. Probably not wise to play your favorite hits lest you start singing along or really getting into the song instead of your magic.
5. Wear whatever attire you prefer or nothing at all.
6. Begin masturbating.
- Start of slow and build to a climax but do not allow yourself to actually climax.
- For men, this is called “edging”. You can begin your self-stimulation in the normal means but make sure that you ultimately reach the point of full body stimulation.
- Embrace your sensual side. Rub and caress your skin. Stimulate areas you may have not even considered touching before during masturbation, such as your feet, arm pits, back, etc. A full body experience is needed.
- It is also important for this that you do not keep track of time. You need to lose yourself in your ecstasy.
- Repeatedly allow your pleasure to build to the point of climax/ejaculation but do not allow your self to achieve such. Hold off and start slow again and build until your reach the same level of stimulation.
- While doing this you will visualize what it is you would manifest into reality, specifically the end result. Only focus on the end result.
7. When you do finally climax/ejaculate/orgasm it should be extremely powerful and should come during a moment of exceptionally clear visualization of the desire that is to be manifested.
- This will depend on the ritual as to what you do next, but generally, you can just ground the energy so you don’t feel buzzed.
QUESTIONS?
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