Our Couple Candles are specially shaped figure candles designed for relationship work. Each style carries a different energetic intention, allowing you to work precisely on matters of love, connection, separation, or passion.
Back-to-Back Couple Candle This candle shows two figures standing with their backs against each other. It is traditionally used for separation work, creating distance, ending communication, or cooling down a relationship. It can also be used when you want someone to lose interest or turn away from another person.
- Use Black Back-to-Back when you want a serious, lasting separation.
- Use Red Back-to-Back when the relationship is very passionate/sexual and you want to cool that fire down so they drift apart more naturally.
Face-to-Face Couple Candle This candle depicts two figures standing face to face. It is used for reconciliation, improving communication, rebuilding connection, and drawing two people back together. It is ideal when you want to encourage dialogue, healing, or renewed closeness between two people.
The Black Lovers Embracing Candle is typically used for heavy binding, control, or obsessive attachment work. It is not generally used for sweet, healthy, or romantic love.
Here’s what it’s most commonly used for:
| Intention | How the Black Embracing Candle is Used | Strength |
|---|---|---|
| Strong Binding / Domination | Binding someone tightly to you, often with control or obsession | Very Strong |
| Obsessive Attachment | Making someone unable to stop thinking about you or leave you | Strong |
| Toxic / Coercive Love Work | Keeping someone in a relationship even when it’s unhealthy | Strong |
| Sexual Domination | Binding someone sexually to you in a controlling way | Strong |
| Ending a Relationship with Control | Keeping them emotionally entangled while the relationship deteriorates | Moderate-Strong |
How It Differs from the Red Version:
| Candle Colour | Energy | Best Used For | Vibe |
|---|---|---|---|
| Red Lovers Embracing | Passion, attraction, intimacy | Rekindling desire, deepening connection, mutual passion | Romantic / Sexual |
| Black Lovers Embracing | Control, binding, obsession | Heavy binding, domination, obsession, keeping someone stuck | Controlling / Obsessive |
- The Black Lovers Embracing Candle is considered more baneful or coercive than the red version. It’s often used when someone wants to bind another person to them, sometimes against their free will or in a very controlling way.
- Many practitioners only use this candle when the situation is serious (for example, when someone is trying to break free from an abusive or toxic dynamic and the caster wants to keep them bound).
How to Use:
Dress the candle with the appropriate oil (such as Come to Me, Reconciliation, Separation, or Lust oils), carve the names of the two people involved, and speak your petition over the candle. These candles can be burned as part of a larger working or as a standalone ritual.
These candles are sold individually so you can choose the exact style and colour that matches your intention.
Ritual Preparation Service (Add-on)
For an additional fee, we can ritually prepare your couple candle on your behalf before it is shipped to you.
This service includes:
- Cleansing and consecrating the candle
- Dressing it with the appropriate oils and herbs aligned to your intention
- Charging the candle with your specific petition and the names of the two people involved
This means your candle arrives ready to use and energetically activated, so you can begin your working immediately without needing to do the dressing and charging yourself.
This is especially helpful if you’re new to candle work, short on time, or simply prefer to have the candle ritually prepared by an experienced practitioner.
An idea on How to Use: Back to Back Couple Separation Candle
These candles are used to break a couple up or end a relationship. Use this candle to destroy a relationship causing you pain or bring back your lost or stolen lover. Carve the names of the people you wish to separate into the candle and anoint with a separation oil for best results.
- Carve the name of the targets on the candle images.
- Anoint the candle with BreakUp Oil or Separation Oil.
- Light both candle images
- Optional incantation:
- “I invoke the Spirit of Hate to inspire in these two people (name them) a hate so powerful that they can never remember each other’s names without feeling hate. If they ever meet and want to see each other, I invoke the spirit of all roads to separate their pathways. May they be separated for good! So Be It!”
- Burn the candle until both images have melted down.
You can burn it all in one day or over several days.
CAREFULLY break the heart base in half and bury the pieces away from each other












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