Basic Sex Magic Ritual for the Solo Practioner
1. Define the goal, purpose, or clarify the desire. You need to know what it is you want to manifest prior to performing sex magic.
2. Cleanse the area. I like to perform a simple cleansing of the area in which sex magic will be performed. Smudging and burning incense are good, simple ways of achieving such.
3. Cleanse yourself. Take a spiritual bath or perform a simple cleansing on yourself to wipe away any negative energies that you may have picked up over the course of your daily life.
4. Set the mood/atmosphere.
- Dim the lights or light candles. If you are burning candles then you can go ahead and fix candles for your magical purpose, such as using proper color, marked/carved, and dressed with proper corresponding condition oil. Otherwise, you can just burn any candle of any color.
- Burn incense if you prefer. Your incense can also be chosen by purpose as well or just use whatever incense your prefer.
- If you would like to have soft music playing in the background then such is fine. Any music that inspires eroticism would be good. Probably not wise to play your favorite hits lest you start singing along or really getting into the song instead of your magic.
5. Wear whatever attire you prefer or nothing at all.
6. Begin masturbating.
- Start of slow and build to a climax but do not allow yourself to actually climax.
- For men, this is called “edging”. You can begin your self-stimulation in the normal means but make sure that you ultimately reach the point of full body stimulation.
- Embrace your sensual side. Rub and caress your skin. Stimulate areas you may have not even considered touching before during masturbation, such as your feet, arm pits, back, etc. A full body experience is needed.
- It is also important for this that you do not keep track of time. You need to lose yourself in your ecstasy.
- Repeatedly allow your pleasure to build to the point of climax/ejaculation but do not allow your self to achieve such. Hold off and start slow again and build until your reach the same level of stimulation.
- While doing this you will visualize what it is you would manifest into reality, specifically the end result. Only focus on the end result.
7. When you do finally climax/ejaculate/orgasm it should be extremely powerful and should come during a moment of exceptionally clear visualization of the desire that is to be manifested.
- This will depend on the ritual as to what you do next, but generally, you can just ground the energy so you don’t feel buzzed.