To stop an unrequited love
Light a violet or black candle and chant these words:
‘Turn his/her heart away from me, but not so far she/he detests me so, Undo the obsession (he, she) has with me, for I’ve no love to show. Unrequited love isn’t fair, it’s better we’re not together. Make (him, her) find another love who’ll stay by (his/her) side forever’
To stop romantic feelings
Think of the person you no longer want to have feelings for. Think of all the reasons that back up your decision.
Write this person’s name on a small slip of paper.
Cross out the name with deliberation.
Say: “You no longer hold a special place in my heart. You are not the right person for me. I will bury my feelings for you here & make a fresh start.”
Bury this bit of paper & all your feelings about this person outside under a waning moon.
To release an unwanted love
two black candles
one candle to represent the person
Do this during waning moon.
Take your athame in your right hand and the candle in your left, reach out to the sky and say:
‘Goddess of the Moon, Mother of all, Creator of Life, I ask of thee to bless this candle in the name of…..’
Put the candle in the candleholder and light it.
Say: ‘God of the Sun, Horned Consort of the Goddess, Ruler of the day, I ask of thee to bless this candle in the name of …..’
Reach to the sky with the candle in the holder in your hand and say: ‘With this candle blessed in the name of …… I command that he does not see me with the eyes of love but now with the eyes of friends. In the Goddess name I ask. Blessed be.’
Close the circle, blow out the candles but let the candle representing the other person burn out.
To end a relationship
white candle anointed with eucalyptus oil
Say:
‘(.name..), you were once my hearts desire,
I once loved you like a burning fire
Love and passion I felt for you,
Long ago those feelings were true
Now the fire has turned to ashes ,
The ashes blow into the sea
Love and Passion have traveled far,
Blown along by the eastern winds
Our flame will not be rekindled,
The blazing fire’s gone
I loved you then, But now you see
So please do not return to me ,
So mote it be, so mote it be!”
Burn the candle down till it goes out symbolizing the flame between you and your old love burning out.
To release an unwanted love
two black candles
one candle to represent the person
Do this during waning moon
Take your athame in your right hand and the candle in your left, reach out to the sky and say:
‘Goddess of the Moon, Mother of all, Creator of Life,
I ask of thee to bless this candle in the name of…..’
Put the candle in the candleholder and light it.
Say:
‘God of the Sun, Horned Consort of the Goddess, Ruler of the day,
I ask of thee to bless this candle in the name of …..’
Reach to the sky with the candle in the holder in your hand and say:
‘With this candle blessed in the name of ……
I command that he does not see me with the eyes of love
but now with the eyes of friends.
In the Goddess name I ask. Blessed be.’
Close the circle, blow out the candles but let the candle representing the other person burn out.
To mend a broken heart
blue candle
pink candle
Light them both and say
‘The bonds of the past,
Can serve me no longer.
My heart is mending,
And growing stronger.
As i release my sorrow and pain,
my heart is free
to love again.’
To stop have feelings for someone
red candle
Light it and say:
‘You were once my hearts desire
a look from you set me on fire
but your space in my heart has been sold
I kick your ass into the cold
you live your life, I’ll live mine,
but no longer will our paths entwine
take your key from out my heart
and on good terms shall we depart’
To undo a love spell
*Picture of both parties together or write the names on a piece of paper
*A burning dish
Cut the paper between the two of you and say: ‘As I cut their tie let the bond between them be broken’
Burn both halves of the paper apart. Say:
‘As I burn the tie let the bond be ever severed. So Mote it be!’
Thank the deities and dismiss the circle if you have used one.
At last, bury or scatter the ashes. Use a violet or black candle and chant these words:
‘Turn his heart away from me, but not so far he detests me so,
Undo the obsession (he, she) has with me, for I’ve no love to show.
Unrequited love isn’t fair, it’s better we’re not together.
Make (him, her) find another love who’ll stay by (his/her) side forever’
Spell to fix a broken heart
*dried rose buds
*lavender
*jasmine
*mistletoe
*lady’s mantle
*red silk pouch
*red silk ribbon
*cinnamon incense
Place dried rose buds (not open ones), lavender, jasmine, mistletoe and lady’s mantle into a red silk pouch. Tie it with the ribbon and while passing it through the smoke of the cinnamon incense say:
“pouch of mine
lovers hearts entwine
no more
Heal my heart
For we now part
goodbye
The pain I feel
I need to heal
be well”
To heal a broken heart
*1/4 cup seasalt
*2 candles
*mirror
*a small cloth
*a copper penny
*teaspoon dried jasmine
*teaspoon orris root powder
*1/4 cup lavender flowers
*teaspoon yarrow
During evening of full moon, after the sun set
Take a bath with the sea salt added, by the light of a candle.
When you finished the bath, dress first, then extinguish the candle.
Light the second candle and lay the mirror face up before it. On the mirror, mix the jasmine, orris root, lavender and yarrow. When done mixing, say:
‘Spirit of the moon, heal my broken heart
let the shadow of pain, drift away in your silvery light.
Spirit of the moon, let my heart heal
And once more be strong That I may love again.’
Place the mixture in the small cloth, place the penny in the mixture and close and tie the cloth. Extinguish the candle. Keep the bag in your bedroom.