Sex magic (sometimes spelled sex magick) is any type of sexual activity used in magical, ritualistic or otherwise religious and spiritual pursuits. One practice of sex magic is using sexual arousal or orgasm with visualization of a desired result.

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Overview of Sex Magick

Sex magick is a practice that combines sexual energy and intention to manifest desires and achieve specific goals.  It is the practice of using sexual energies to raise the potency of a spell.

Here’s a detailed overview:

1. Definition

  • Sex magick involves using sexual energy as a powerful tool for spiritual and magical work. Practitioners believe that this energy can be harnessed to enhance intentions, manifest desires, and create transformations in their lives.

2. Historical Context

  • This practice has roots in various traditions, including Western occultism, tantra, and certain indigenous spiritual practices. Throughout history, many cultures have recognized the connection between sexuality and spirituality.

Key Concepts

1. Energy Raising

  • Sexual energy is considered potent and is believed to have the ability to raise one’s vibrational state. The heightened energy during sexual arousal and orgasm can be directed toward a specific intention.

2. Intention Setting

  • A crucial aspect of sex magick is the clarity of intention. Practitioners often set specific goals, such as attracting love, abundance, or personal empowerment, before engaging in sexual activities.

3. Ritual Practices

  • Sex magick can be practiced solo or with a partner. Rituals may include:
    • Meditation: Focusing on the intention while engaging in sexual practices.
    • Visualization: Imagining the desired outcome as you reach climax.
    • Affirmations: Repeating positive statements related to your intention during the act.

4. Symbolism and Tools

  • Practitioners may use symbols, talismans, or ritual tools to enhance the experience. Items like candles, crystals, or specific scents can be incorporated to create a sacred space.

Types of Sex Magick

1. Solo Practices

  • Engaging in masturbation with the focus on intention can be a powerful way to harness sexual energy for personal goals.

2. Partnered Practices

  • Couples can engage in synchronized practices, where both partners focus on a shared intention during intimate moments. This may involve rituals or guided visualizations.

Benefits of Sex Magick

  • Empowerment: It can help individuals feel more in control of their desires and manifest goals.
  • Connection: Enhances intimacy and connection between partners, fostering deeper emotional bonds.
  • Self-Discovery: Encourages exploration of one’s own desires and sexuality, promoting personal growth.

Common Questions

Do you need another person to practice sex magic?

  • Sex magic can be practiced alone or with a partner. Beginners should start off doing it alone and then move toward practicing with a partner who is comfortable with such and is willing to aid you in your endeavor.

Should I keep body fluids from a sex magic ritual?

  • Sexual fluids gathered from a sex magic rite are extremely powerful. You can use such to dress candles, amulets or talismans, mojo bags, etc., and especially if you are doing other forms of magic to back up your sex magic.

Why perform sex magic?

  • Sex magic can be used for anything. It’s not just good for love or romance. It’s a tool or technique that can be used to achieve and manifest your desires.
  • Sex magic is also quite important for specific Demon offerings and rituals.

Do you need a female and a male to be successful in sex magic?

  • No, same-sex rituals are equally as effective. There is no judgment in the world of magic. I will add that it will also depend on the purpose of the ritual.
    • IMAGE: A relief from the temple of Kahurajo. It looks like people knew how to have a good time!

Is Sex Magick a New Concept?

  • Sex magic is a very primitive and powerful way of raising energy in order to manifest your desires.
  • In the image above, we see a sculpture from the Temples of Khajuraho. In this wildly sexual scene called a Kama scene, one could be forgiven for believing this is just purely an orgie, but they would be wrong. Kama literally means “desire, wish, longing” and is one of the four goals of human life in Hindu traditions; it is considered an essential human pursuit in balance with the other three goals: Dharma, Artha and Moksha.
  • Sex magick, or what’s called tantra in Eastern traditions, has been around for thousands of years. Sex magic through tantra can be dated back to the middle of the first millennium.
  • Aleister Crowley is considered the most notorious sex magick practitioner in recent history. As a member of Ordo Templi Orientis Secret Society, he wrote several books on erotic magic.

Choosing a Partner for Sex Magick:

  • Sexual magick can be performed by one, two, or more individuals (irrespective of gender). If you have a partner, that’s fine but if you don’t it is still not a problem. It is possible to harness the power of your sexuality while masturbating alone. If you are doing it with someone else, ensure that the person is trustworthy. Discuss your goals together, so you can operate on the same frequency.

Group Sex Magick

  • This is mostly practised by advanced sex magicians who know how to raise and control their energies. The rules binding this kind of ritual are set by the members before commencing. Note that the aim is not to sexually freak out with as many partners as possible but to combine their energies towards achieving a specific goal.
  • If you chose to perform sex magic with a partner or even group of people then please be aware that you will need to trust your partner(s) as having the same desire or outcome. For example, if your partner has voiced their opinion and it is contrary to your desire then I would not recommend you work with them in a sex magic rite because their energy is going to counter-act your own. It’s best to have a partner who either holds the same desire as yourself or at least is of an opinion that is not against the manifestation of your desire.
  • If you prefer, your partner can be kept in the dark as to the purpose of the rite. This way the partner will act to help build sexual energy while not actively working to manifest it.

PREPARATIONS FOR SEX MAGICK

Set a goal:

  • It all starts with an intention. Your desires fuel the whole process. What do you wish to achieve? Write them down in simple affirmative words. During the ritual, repeat the affirmation over and over again.
  • You could also create a sigil of your desire, and then focus on the sigil during the raising of energy, and the releasing of the energy.

Prepare your working space:

  • You can also use symbols and pictures but ensure to place them where you would see them during the ritual. For example, maybe want to put the picture on the ceiling or perhaps on a wall at eye-level.
  • Optional Ideas:
  •  If you are new – You must banish every unwanted spirit from your ritual space. Burn incense and visualize a strong circle of protection.
  • Clean the space where you will be performing the ritual. Then decorate it with candles, flowers, incense, crystals, or anything that matches your intention.
  • Decorate the room where you will be performing this ritual with colors that symbolize your intention. This would help to elevate the manifestation of your desires. For example, use green for money intention, white for healing, pink/red for love and passion, etc.
  • Take a spiritual bath/shower – While bathing, as the water pours down from your head, visualize as it washes away all your mental, physical, and emotional dirt.
  • Charge your sex toys: You can incorporate lunar vibrations into your sex magic when you charge your sex toys under the moon. If you are using crystals, charge them too.

Visualize your intentions:

  • In simple terms, visualization is the act of using your imagination to bring into your life that which you seek. Create a picture of your intention. For example, if your goal is to get a visa, visualize yourself holding your visa. When you start masturbating, visualize yourself taking that flight to your desired destination.
  • This is why I like the idea of creating a siil so you are super clear on your intention

Perform the ritual:

  • If you are performing solo sex, while masturbating focus on your breath and connect it to your intention. When you experience orgasm, visualize your intention as a beam of light shooting into the Universe. Enjoy the ecstatic feeling for a while.
  • During sex, your chakras open up and after orgasm, they are completely open with energy swirling around you. You need some time to get energized again. After sex, the sexual fluids are often charged with the magical intent of the individual. This charged fluid can be used to charge an amulet or talisman. Just smear some of it on them. You can also mix the sexual fluid with wine and drink it. It becomes the sacred elixir of life. If your intention was to attract money, smear the fluid on the money notes and coins used during the ritual.

TIPS FOR CHOOSING A SEX POSITION

  • If you are performing duo sex magick then there are different positions that you can try out depending on your intention.
  • Missionary position: The famous missionary position enhances contact, intimacy, healing, and a free flow of energy. It is a very good position for the man to reach orgasm on time. In this position, the partners’ chakras are placed opposite to each other. In sex magick, this position should be used if the goal is to create a positive change in the life of the man.
  • Man on top and woman below: In this position, she does not move and after penetration, she holds her legs together. The woman receives all the sexual energy of the man and channels them to the Universe. This position should be used to fulfill the woman’s intention.
  • Woman-on-top (cowgirl or camel-position): This position should be used for something the woman wishes to realize.
  • Woman-on-top-reversed: In this position, her face is looking at her partner’s feet. This position should be used when performing magick for a friend of the woman.
  • Doggie-position: If the man intends to send energy to someone, this position is good for that.
  • Side-to-side-position: This position is recommended if the couple have a mutual goal.
  • Lotus sex position: This is perfect for promoting intimacy, connection, warmth, and of course, orgasm. In a heterosexual partnership, this position is when the man sits down with his legs crossed and the woman straddles him, wrapping her legs around his waist. It is a highly meditational position and should be used for spiritual development goals.
  • Anal sex: Good for highly energized sex magick but can you keep focused on the intention during that very intense sex position?

EROTIC EVOCATION – 

  • This is a practice that involves either summoning a spirit for sexual purpose or the creation of a servitor for the same goal. Erotic evocation should only be attempted by someone who is already familiar with the basic feelings and direction of magickally oriented sexual energy.
  • How is it done? According to a source, for three days, the individual is expected to increase his/her sexual desire to high intensity but orgasm must be delayed. On the day of the evocation, with heightened sexual tension, the individual can evoke the spirit and on manifestation, he shall inhabit and fill the summoner with sexual ecstasy.
  • If done properly, the results of sex magick can be seen immediately. The energy unleashed is quite powerful and shouldn’t be underestimated. The more focused you are during the process, the higher your chances of success.
  • OPTIONAL – End the ritual with banishment. When you are done, say thank you to the spirits you worked with (if any). Due to the energy released during this ritual, you might have attracted astral beings to that space. End the ritual by banishing any spirit including those you worked with.

FINAL THOUGHTS

  • Sex magic can be a great way to manifest energy towards a goal or outcome. So you could do this even at the beginner level, but definitely during intermediate black magic. Advanced black sex magic rituals should only be done once you’re confident invoking and evoking.

 

Sex Magic Ritual for Manifesting Desire

Here’s a detailed outline of a simple sex magic ritual, including what you can expect as a result.

Purpose

This ritual aims to harness sexual energy to manifest a specific desire, such as attracting love, increasing creativity, or enhancing personal power.

Materials Needed

  • Candle: A candle in a color that represents your intention (e.g., red for passion, green for abundance).
  • Incense: A scent that resonates with your intention (e.g., rose for love, sandalwood for spirituality).
  • Crystals: Optional, but stones like rose quartz or citrine can amplify your energy.
  • Paper and Pen: To write down your intention.
  • Comfortable Space: A private area where you feel relaxed and safe.

Ritual Steps

1. Set the Mood

  • Create a comfortable, intimate space. Dim the lights, play soft music if desired, and ensure you won’t be disturbed.
  • Light the candle and incense to purify the space and invoke the energies of your intention.

2. Write Your Intention

  • On the piece of paper, write down a clear and specific intention. For example: “I attract loving and fulfilling relationships.”
  • Focus on your intention while writing, feeling the emotions associated with achieving it.

3. Ground Yourself

  • Take a few moments to breathe deeply and center yourself. Focus on your body and release any tension.

4. Engage in Self-Pleasure or Partnered Activity

  • If solo, begin with gentle self-touch, focusing on your intention. Visualize your desire as you explore your body.
  • If with a partner, connect intimately. Share your intention verbally or through eye contact.

5. Build Energy

  • As you build towards climax, concentrate fully on your intention. Visualize it manifesting in your life—see it, feel it, and believe it.
  • You can chant or affirm your desire as you reach this heightened state, reinforcing your intention.

6. Release Energy

  • At the moment of climax, visualize your intention exploding into the universe, sending your desire out into the cosmos. Imagine it returning to you in the form of your wish being fulfilled.

7. Close the Ritual

  • Afterward, take a moment to relax and enjoy the sensations. Allow yourself to feel grateful for the experience.
  • Extinguish the candle and incense, symbolizing the completion of the ritual.
  • Keep the paper with your intention in a special place or burn it as an offering.

What to Expect as a Result

  • Enhanced Energy: You may feel a significant boost in your energy and confidence, both during and after the ritual.
  • Heightened Intuition: You might notice increased clarity regarding your desires and how to pursue them.
  • Manifestation of Intentions: Over time, you may begin to see signs or opportunities related to your intention. This could be in the form of new relationships, creative inspiration, or other synchronicities.
  • Increased Connection: If performed with a partner, expect a deeper emotional and physical connection, enhancing your intimacy.

Final Thoughts

Sex magic can be a powerful tool for manifestation when approached with intention and respect. Remember to stay open to the results and allow the universe to bring your desires to fruition in its own timing.

Books: Recommend

  • Best Of The Equinox Vol 3 Sex Magick By Alester Crowley
  • The Best of the Equinox. Volume III of the series presents perhaps the most titillating of esoteric subjects, Sex Magick. Once he grasped the fundamentals of sexual magick, Aleister Crowley understood it to be the key that unlocks the secrets of the universe. He dedicated the entire second half of his life to exploring its mysteries. This volume presents the bulk of Crowley’s written works on the subject and includes The Gnostic Mass, Energized Enthusiasm, Liber A’ash, Liber Chath, and Liber Stellae Rubeae

Sources:

  • Magia Sexualis: Sex, Magic, and Liberation in Modern Western Esotericism
  • Sexuality, Magic(k) and the Ritual Body: A Phenomenology of Embodiment and Participation in a Modern Magical Ritual, Journal of Ritual Studies
    Vol. 31, No. 2 (2017),
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